I sat on a call with a dating coach who reached out to me after a short conversation inside a Facebook group.  I remember him saying, “I can help you sleep with as many women as you want.”  

I let him continue his pitch out of respect, but he had lost me.

I didn’t want that.  In fact, that runs counter to who I want to be.  

If that’s you, I understand because I was there in my early 20’s.  

I look back on the year after my divorce and here are a few points that I pulled from the hundreds of hours of books, youtube videos, and podcasts I voraciously consumed.